Tuesday, March 30, 2010

Topic #1: guys who are keen-bean at the start, then drop off and end things suddenly, out of the blue..WTF?!

Been here, done that. Actually, many times before. One classic example was my going overseas (yes, overseas to another Continent) to join a certain boy, only to never see him again after 14 days of sunshine and travel. Ever again. Things go up, then suddenly....come to a halt. What the?

Leaves you wondering a few things like:
A: why did i go overseas (in my case this is haha) - lesson is to not rush things
B: what did i do wrong?
C: what happened to change things?
D: how could he NOT want me, really?...

and similar questions.

I think the answer is different every time, obviously...could be the guy and his situation, maybe he's a player and was a player all along and just wanted to have a few weeks or months with you - then wants no more commitment, - or maybe you genuinely weren't suited for a longer term thing - we are all so choosy, and transient and independent these days aren't we.

your thoughts?

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